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Post by YAG » Mon Sep 04, 2017 7:13 am

Look, some of the people who get into this business should be in a bar hustling drunks for Pocket change, not pretending they're high class escorts.

Text conversations that start with the following 3 words for me are the kiss of death:

Bae - it doesn't even have a clear definition. It's a clear sign of lazy diction and lazy thinking. Bye bye.

Babe - I don't know you, and a false pretense of familiarity and friendliness drives me bonkers. Bye bye.

And the total killer, and I don't care who you are:

Daddy. I'm not a pedophile. I'm not looking for a child, or a girl. I'm looking for a woman.
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Re: Unsexy Words

Post by shyboy69 » Mon Sep 04, 2017 7:22 am

I've never received the "daddy" in any text yet. But the "babe" seems to be Contractor 101. And that sorta drives me nuts. Most because I don't feel as if I'm a "babe"! I just assume it's easier to call someone "babe" then to remember their name?

At present I'd say I kinda have 2 FFN. One calls me honey, which is OK. While the other actually calls me by my name. Just as Larissa and Cody did. Which I find very refreshing.

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Re: Unsexy Words

Post by YAG » Mon Sep 04, 2017 7:27 am

I liked when either of those two called me god.
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Re: Unsexy Words

Post by YAG » Mon Sep 04, 2017 7:30 am

It's pretty rare one calls me daddy. Usually I give them a shot at apologizing when I tell them I find it is eminently creepy.

Couple of nights, though, this entity (because it started feeling like a dude was responding) got pissy with me about it being "cute". I tried to calmly explain, and a tirade ensued.
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Re: Unsexy Words

Post by shyboy69 » Mon Sep 04, 2017 7:39 am

YAG wrote:
Mon Sep 04, 2017 7:27 am
I liked when either of those two called me god.
I agree! I miss them both! Hopefully I'll enjoy Larissa's company again down the road.
YAG wrote:
Mon Sep 04, 2017 7:30 am
It's pretty rare one calls me daddy. Usually I give them a shot at apologizing when I tell them I find it is eminently creepy.

Couple of nights, though, this entity (because it started feeling like a dude was responding) got pissy with me about it being "cute". I tried to calmly explain, and a tirade ensued.
LOL How does one start that conversation?

She: Oh Daddy
You; Please don't, I prefer not to be called Daddy
She; Oh but Daddy
You; really DON'T
She; OH, but Daddy......it's sooooo cute. And I'm so naughty. DADDY
You; I SAID DON'T OR WE'RE DONE HERE
She; maybe you should run over here any spank me.................DADDY
...................LOL

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Re: Unsexy Words

Post by YAG » Mon Sep 04, 2017 7:45 am

I'm pretty sure it ended with me saying she was scum
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Re: Unsexy Words

Post by shyboy69 » Mon Sep 04, 2017 7:48 am

YAG wrote:
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I'm pretty sure it ended with me saying she was scum
OH.....BUT......DADDY? You're not playing along right. LOL

You've just moved from big guy to BIG DADDY in my book. Just kidding.....maybe. =))

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Post by YAG » Mon Sep 04, 2017 7:50 am

Well, it degenerated to that AFTER it persisted AFTER I explained how it felt like it was catering to pedophiles.
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Re: Unsexy Words

Post by shyboy69 » Mon Sep 04, 2017 7:52 am

YAG wrote:
Mon Sep 04, 2017 7:50 am
Well, it degenerated to that AFTER it persisted AFTER I explained how it felt like it was catering to pedophiles.
That's not good marketing on her......er whoever's part. Piss a guy off. So, he's gets mad and maybe doesn't show up. SMART!!

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Re: Unsexy Words

Post by ben1080 » Mon Sep 04, 2017 12:50 pm

I had someone give it hard daddy-I instantly stopped I said I am not your daddy

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Re: Unsexy Words

Post by YAG » Mon Sep 04, 2017 12:57 pm

ben1080 wrote:
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I had someone give it hard daddy-I instantly stopped I said I am not your daddy
She gave it to you hard, daddy?

Sorry - commas matter.
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Post by finman56 » Mon Sep 04, 2017 4:27 pm

also don't like being called daddy, I don't see younger ladies because I have a 19 y/o daughter, she is allowed to call me daddy,

Now AR calls me babe all the time, we are however, VERY familiar with each other. =))
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Post by Jakcool » Mon Sep 04, 2017 7:04 pm

....most of the times a third party operating the phone,and more than likely it is a male , which usually sucks when he tries to play soft and seductive!
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Post by Enginguru » Tue Sep 05, 2017 6:13 pm

Babe and Daddy definitely tick me off. For the same reasons you stated. Oddly "honey" doesn't, even though it's essentially the same approach as "babe"

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Re: Unsexy Words

Post by finman56 » Tue Sep 05, 2017 6:29 pm

Enginguru wrote:
Tue Sep 05, 2017 6:13 pm
Babe and Daddy definitely tick me off. For the same reasons you stated. Oddly "honey" doesn't, even though it's essentially the same approach as "babe"
I have a coworker who calls me HUN, I cringe every time she says it. I just want say STFU and stop it.
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Re: Unsexy Words

Post by YAG » Tue Sep 05, 2017 7:04 pm

finman56 wrote:
Tue Sep 05, 2017 6:29 pm
Enginguru wrote:
Tue Sep 05, 2017 6:13 pm
Babe and Daddy definitely tick me off. For the same reasons you stated. Oddly "honey" doesn't, even though it's essentially the same approach as "babe"
I have a coworker who calls me HUN, I cringe every time she says it. I just want say STFU and stop it.
File a sexual harassment complaint if she won't stop.
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Re: Unsexy Words

Post by finman56 » Tue Sep 05, 2017 7:36 pm

YAG wrote:
Tue Sep 05, 2017 7:04 pm
finman56 wrote:
Tue Sep 05, 2017 6:29 pm
Enginguru wrote:
Tue Sep 05, 2017 6:13 pm
Babe and Daddy definitely tick me off. For the same reasons you stated. Oddly "honey" doesn't, even though it's essentially the same approach as "babe"
I have a coworker who calls me HUN, I cringe every time she says it. I just want say STFU and stop it.
File a sexual harassment complaint if she won't stop.
The problem Yag it is NOT sexual harassment, she is just dumber than a box of rocks and I am sure she has called everyone her entire adult life HUN. She is actually a sweet and kind lady. I just go with the flow. L-)
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Post by wallaby » Tue Sep 05, 2017 8:35 pm

LOL.

+1 on "Daddy".

Someone I've become close to called me daddy.
Told her thats not the relationship I'm looking for.
I know we have an age difference, but its not something I want to be reminded of.
It got sorted out.

And now she just calls me by me first name - and I am quite happy with that.

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Rooms were comfortable, but the walls were a little thinner than expected or the neighbors a little louder than normal.
As we were getting ready to go out to dinner, we hear - thump - thump - thump - against the connecting wall and a very latina voice yelling "Ohhhhhhhhh Papi, harder, (thump) HARDER (thump), you muy strong and moocho grande."

On the hour, we left to get to our dinner reservation and ran into the guy being let out of the room. Unaccompanied.

Later that night we heard the same thing - a very latina voice yelling "Ohhhhhhhhh Papi, harder, (thump) HARDER (thump), you muy strong and moocho grande."
And again once more that night, and again just before breakfast.

I guess that was her "I woke up horny" equivalent.
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Post by MeterMan » Wed Sep 06, 2017 8:46 am

finman56 wrote:
Tue Sep 05, 2017 7:36 pm
YAG wrote:
Tue Sep 05, 2017 7:04 pm
finman56 wrote:
Tue Sep 05, 2017 6:29 pm
Enginguru wrote:
Tue Sep 05, 2017 6:13 pm
Babe and Daddy definitely tick me off. For the same reasons you stated. Oddly "honey" doesn't, even though it's essentially the same approach as "babe"
I have a coworker who calls me HUN, I cringe every time she says it. I just want say STFU and stop it.
File a sexual harassment complaint if she won't stop.
The problem Yag it is NOT sexual harassment, she is just dumber than a box of rocks and I am sure she has called everyone her entire adult life HUN. She is actually a sweet and kind lady. I just go with the flow. L-)

You're uncomfortable with it. It creates a hostile work environment. It would be considered harassment.
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Post by Publisher » Wed Sep 06, 2017 8:51 am

MeterMan wrote:
Wed Sep 06, 2017 8:46 am
finman56 wrote:
Tue Sep 05, 2017 7:36 pm
YAG wrote:
Tue Sep 05, 2017 7:04 pm
finman56 wrote:
Tue Sep 05, 2017 6:29 pm
Enginguru wrote:
Tue Sep 05, 2017 6:13 pm
Babe and Daddy definitely tick me off. For the same reasons you stated. Oddly "honey" doesn't, even though it's essentially the same approach as "babe"
I have a coworker who calls me HUN, I cringe every time she says it. I just want say STFU and stop it.
File a sexual harassment complaint if she won't stop.
The problem Yag it is NOT sexual harassment, she is just dumber than a box of rocks and I am sure she has called everyone her entire adult life HUN. She is actually a sweet and kind lady. I just go with the flow. L-)

You're uncomfortable with it. It creates a hostile work environment. It would be considered harassment.
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Post by Hailey » Wed Sep 06, 2017 10:13 am

I had no idea guys are bothered by those terms! I'm SUPER guilty of using "hun" and "babe" on a regular basis when speaking to people. Guys, friends, the gal who sells me my coffee..... although she'll always be babe to me, she makes damn good coffee :hrt1 :lol:
Maybe I should work on not using those terms so often though. The question being, what are the more preferred ways to address someone? Especially in situations when you don't know the persons name.

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Post by YAG » Wed Sep 06, 2017 10:16 am

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Post by Hailey » Wed Sep 06, 2017 10:29 am

Galactic Overlord!!! :lol:
Your killin me! :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

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Post by YAG » Wed Sep 06, 2017 10:41 am

You love me and you know it
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Hailey wrote:
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I had no idea guys are bothered by those terms! I'm SUPER guilty of using "hun" and "babe" on a regular basis when speaking to people. Guys, friends, the gal who sells me my coffee..... although she'll always be babe to me, she makes damn good coffee :hrt1 :lol:
Maybe I should work on not using those terms so often though. The question being, what are the more preferred ways to address someone? Especially in situations when you don't know the persons name.
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Post by LoveBeer » Wed Sep 06, 2017 11:02 am

Some ladies seem to like calling me "oh god" :lol: :lol: :lol:

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Post by Hailey » Wed Sep 06, 2017 11:12 am

YAG wrote:
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You love me and you know it
Yeah I do! :vhappy:

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Post by Hailey » Wed Sep 06, 2017 11:14 am

LoveBeer wrote:
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Some ladies seem to like calling me "oh god" :lol: :lol: :lol:
That's a good one! :lol:
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Post by DMLawPro » Wed Sep 06, 2017 12:47 pm

Hailey wrote:
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The question being, what are the more preferred ways to address someone? Especially in situations when you don't know the persons name.
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Hailey wrote:
Wed Sep 06, 2017 10:13 am
I had no idea guys are bothered by those terms! I'm SUPER guilty of using "hun" and "babe" on a regular basis when speaking to people. Guys, friends, the gal who sells me my coffee..... although she'll always be babe to me, she makes damn good coffee :hrt1 :lol:
Maybe I should work on not using those terms so often though. The question being, what are the more preferred ways to address someone? Especially in situations when you don't know the persons name.
You had just sent me a text that started with "Babe" when I was reading this thread. lol

While I don't really care for those terms either it does not bother me when it is from someone I do know and or am friends with. I just don't like some random person I have never met using endearment terms to reference me.

Hailey, you can call me Babe anytime because I know you do think I am a Babe! :ymblushing:

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Post by shyboy69 » Wed Sep 06, 2017 8:30 pm

So I'm REDACTED today and she says. OH BABE! It's.............and that's when I almost choked on my tongue! All I could think of at that moment was Big Daddy, I mean Yagster, and this damn thread! LOL

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So I'm REDACTED today and she says. OH BABE! It's.............and that's when I almost choked on my tongue! All I could think of at that moment was Big Daddy, I mean Yagster, and this damn thread! LOL
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Post by finman56 » Wed Sep 06, 2017 8:56 pm

shyboy69 wrote:
Wed Sep 06, 2017 8:30 pm
So I'm REDACTED today and she says. OH BABE! It's.............and that's when I almost choked on my tongue! All I could think of at that moment was Big Daddy, I mean Yagster, and this damn thread! LOL
Did she say shuddup and lick it Daddy!
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shyboy69 wrote:
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So I'm REDACTED today and she says. OH BABE! It's.............and that's when I almost choked on my tongue! All I could think of at that moment was Big Daddy, I mean Yagster, and this damn thread! LOL
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Post by finman56 » Wed Sep 06, 2017 9:50 pm

Reefer wrote:
Wed Sep 06, 2017 9:13 pm
shyboy69 wrote:
Wed Sep 06, 2017 8:30 pm
So I'm REDACTED today and she says. OH BABE! It's.............and that's when I almost choked on my tongue! All I could think of at that moment was Big Daddy, I mean Yagster, and this damn thread! LOL
If they can talk clearly while your doing it, you're doing it wrong!
=)) Now that is funny right there.
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Post by scarletknight » Wed Sep 06, 2017 10:19 pm

Babe and Hon don't bother me too much. I generally assume that they call everyone that. I've never heard Daddy, and I hope I never do.
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Post by Hailey » Thu Sep 07, 2017 9:19 am

maxwell wrote:
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Hailey wrote:
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I had no idea guys are bothered by those terms! I'm SUPER guilty of using "hun" and "babe" on a regular basis when speaking to people. Guys, friends, the gal who sells me my coffee..... although she'll always be babe to me, she makes damn good coffee :hrt1 :lol:
Maybe I should work on not using those terms so often though. The question being, what are the more preferred ways to address someone? Especially in situations when you don't know the persons name.
You had just sent me a text that started with "Babe" when I was reading this thread. lol

While I don't really care for those terms either it does not bother me when it is from someone I do know and or am friends with. I just don't like some random person I have never met using endearment terms to reference me.

Hailey, you can call me Babe anytime because I know you do think I am a Babe! :ymblushing:
You are a babe but DM has inspired me, everyone is Sugar Britches for now on! :lol:

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You are a babe but DM has inspired me, everyone is Sugar Britches for now on! :lol:
Oh yeah baby!

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Post by Publisher » Thu Sep 07, 2017 11:21 am

Hailey wrote:
Thu Sep 07, 2017 9:19 am
maxwell wrote:
Wed Sep 06, 2017 4:28 pm
Hailey wrote:
Wed Sep 06, 2017 10:13 am
I had no idea guys are bothered by those terms! I'm SUPER guilty of using "hun" and "babe" on a regular basis when speaking to people. Guys, friends, the gal who sells me my coffee..... although she'll always be babe to me, she makes damn good coffee :hrt1 :lol:
Maybe I should work on not using those terms so often though. The question being, what are the more preferred ways to address someone? Especially in situations when you don't know the persons name.
You had just sent me a text that started with "Babe" when I was reading this thread. lol

While I don't really care for those terms either it does not bother me when it is from someone I do know and or am friends with. I just don't like some random person I have never met using endearment terms to reference me.

Hailey, you can call me Babe anytime because I know you do think I am a Babe! :ymblushing:
You are a babe but DM has inspired me, everyone is Sugar Britches for now on! :lol:
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So I'm REDACTED today and she says. OH BABE! It's.............and that's when I almost choked on my tongue! All I could think of at that moment was Big Daddy, I mean Yagster, and this damn thread! LOL
If they can talk clearly while your doing it, you're doing it wrong!
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Post by Catelyne » Tue Sep 12, 2017 11:56 pm

I never call my clients babe or baby. When my boyfriend was alive, I used those words when I texted him. I wanted to keep something so intimate between him and I special. I was very aware of this because it was so important to me. I give so much of myself to my clients, there are some things I said and did only for him. It was my gift to him. We had some amazing sexual times!! Wow. I'm glad I saved some things only for him!!

Now I do have a habit of using other names for my clients, I call them babydoll, sweetpea. ...etc. It's just who I am and to give them a sense of comfort. It really is part of who I am. People I care for in my life, like my kids, I call them that also. So, if I use a cute name to u, that's a good thing. It means I care for u!

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Post by shyboy69 » Wed Sep 13, 2017 7:24 am

I know some guys like to use a fake name. Like the ladies. I don't. Because it just doesn't feel very personal able. I like , when using my particular skill, when my female friend uses my name with God. Ohhhhhh God Babe. Ney....not so much. LOL

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Post by lf1749 » Sat Dec 30, 2017 8:47 pm

Hailey wrote:
Wed Sep 06, 2017 10:13 am
I had no idea guys are bothered by those terms! I'm SUPER guilty of using "hun" and "babe" on a regular basis when speaking to people. Guys, friends, the gal who sells me my coffee..... although she'll always be babe to me, she makes damn good coffee :hrt1 :lol:
Maybe I should work on not using those terms so often though. The question being, what are the more preferred ways to address someone? Especially in situations when you don't know the persons name.
I personally liked it when Hailey referred to me as hun or babe when texting me. Sometimes it's the little things that count. Keep it up Hailey, it sure made my day!!!

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Post by Rilynne623 » Sat Dec 30, 2017 9:05 pm

Oh no,
I am absolutely guilty of using the word babe. Working in the healthcare field with Dementia/Alzheimer's patients, I have added a collection of endearment terms to my daily vernacular. Hun, babe, sweetheart, love (Not in love but "Alright love", etc etc.). I say these without condensation but as a term of familiarity. Sorry loves if I caused offense but being yourself on here, as a Contractor, is much more fun than worrying about silly word usage. :hrt1

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When I end up in the old folks warehouse, calling me babe is a sure way for me take a swing at you with my cane
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Post by Rilynne623 » Sat Dec 30, 2017 9:10 pm

YAG wrote:
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When I end up in the old folks warehouse, calling me babe is a sure way for me take a swing at you with my cane
Which one? I've had both experiences with feisty old men. :P :P

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Post by YAG » Sat Dec 30, 2017 9:14 pm

Rilynne623 wrote:
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YAG wrote:
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When I end up in the old folks warehouse, calling me babe is a sure way for me take a swing at you with my cane
Which one? I've had both experiences with feisty old men. :P :P
It wouldn't be the friendly one

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Post by Rilynne623 » Sat Dec 30, 2017 9:16 pm

YAG wrote:
Sat Dec 30, 2017 9:14 pm
Rilynne623 wrote:
Sat Dec 30, 2017 9:10 pm
YAG wrote:
Sat Dec 30, 2017 9:08 pm
When I end up in the old folks warehouse, calling me babe is a sure way for me take a swing at you with my cane
Which one? I've had both experiences with feisty old men. :P :P
It wouldn't be the friendly one

I don't think you understand just how much I despise being called that
Ok! I promise that if I ever have the pleasure of meeting you, I will do my best not to let it slip. If so, a spanking may be in order. :ymblushing:

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Post by shyboy69 » Sat Dec 30, 2017 11:43 pm

Rilynne623 wrote:
Sat Dec 30, 2017 9:05 pm
Oh no,
I am absolutely guilty of using the word babe. Working in the healthcare field with Dementia/Alzheimer's patients, I have added a collection of endearment terms to my daily vernacular. Hun, babe, sweetheart, love (Not in love but "Alright love", etc etc.). I say these without condensation but as a term of familiarity. Sorry loves if I caused offense but being yourself on here, as a Contractor, is much more fun than worrying about silly word usage. :hrt1

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P.S. The word moist when used sexually is downright degrading to all mankind. :P
There are a few old fossils here who probably have those disabilities.

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Post by vorlon » Sun Dec 31, 2017 1:12 am

Rilynne623 wrote:
Sat Dec 30, 2017 9:16 pm
YAG wrote:
Sat Dec 30, 2017 9:14 pm
Rilynne623 wrote:
Sat Dec 30, 2017 9:10 pm
YAG wrote:
Sat Dec 30, 2017 9:08 pm
When I end up in the old folks warehouse, calling me babe is a sure way for me take a swing at you with my cane
Which one? I've had both experiences with feisty old men. :P :P
It wouldn't be the friendly one

I don't think you understand just how much I despise being called that
Ok! I promise that if I ever have the pleasure of meeting you, I will do my best not to let it slip. If so, a spanking may be in order. :ymblushing:
Just call him a grumpy old man.
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Post by YAG » Sun Dec 31, 2017 7:00 am

vorlon wrote:
Sun Dec 31, 2017 1:12 am
Rilynne623 wrote:
Sat Dec 30, 2017 9:16 pm
YAG wrote:
Sat Dec 30, 2017 9:14 pm
Rilynne623 wrote:
Sat Dec 30, 2017 9:10 pm
YAG wrote:
Sat Dec 30, 2017 9:08 pm
When I end up in the old folks warehouse, calling me babe is a sure way for me take a swing at you with my cane
Which one? I've had both experiences with feisty old men. :P :P
It wouldn't be the friendly one

I don't think you understand just how much I despise being called that
Ok! I promise that if I ever have the pleasure of meeting you, I will do my best not to let it slip. If so, a spanking may be in order. :ymblushing:
Just call him a grumpy old man.
I'm good with that.
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Post by Rynn » Mon Jan 01, 2018 11:13 pm

I was always okay with Hailey calling me hun .. the only ones that bother me are 'daddy' especially during, and it reeks of hebephile to me. Also 'bae' if i don't have a level of familiarity, as with some girls, the term fits and others, not so much.
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K3lo wrote:
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Wed Sep 06, 2017 10:16 am
My name
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Post by Hailey » Tue Jan 02, 2018 9:11 am

:lol: I'm glad my word use doesn't bug everyone cause I tried to stop and I can't! :lol:

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:lol: I'm glad my word use doesn't bug everyone cause I tried to stop and I can't! :lol:
See! It works!

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Post by shyboy69 » Tue Jan 02, 2018 9:54 am

K3lo wrote:
Tue Jan 02, 2018 8:44 am
YAG wrote:
Wed Sep 06, 2017 10:16 am
My name
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Galactic Overlord
Trying to use GL in a cognitive conversation with Contractor beckoning Yag’s attention...
“Come here Galactic Overlord”
If he doesn’t respond
“ Oh Overlord?”
If he still doesn’t respond...
Rumor has it he really enjoys "daddy" or a step up from there is "big daddy".

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:lol: I'm glad my word use doesn't bug everyone cause I tried to stop and I can't! :lol:
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Post by Rynn » Tue Jan 02, 2018 10:18 am

shyboy69 wrote:
Tue Jan 02, 2018 9:54 am
K3lo wrote:
Tue Jan 02, 2018 8:44 am
YAG wrote:
Wed Sep 06, 2017 10:16 am
My name
Sir
Galactic Overlord
Trying to use GL in a cognitive conversation with Contractor beckoning Yag’s attention...
“Come here Galactic Overlord”
If he doesn’t respond
“ Oh Overlord?”
If he still doesn’t respond...
Rumor has it he really enjoys "daddy" or a step up from there is "big daddy".
See, I heard his issue with "daddy" is that it doesn't sound dignified enough, and he prefers "Grand-pappy" instead =))
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Post by shyboy69 » Tue Jan 02, 2018 10:25 am

RynMaru wrote:
Tue Jan 02, 2018 10:18 am
shyboy69 wrote:
Tue Jan 02, 2018 9:54 am
K3lo wrote:
Tue Jan 02, 2018 8:44 am
YAG wrote:
Wed Sep 06, 2017 10:16 am
My name
Sir
Galactic Overlord
Trying to use GL in a cognitive conversation with Contractor beckoning Yag’s attention...
“Come here Galactic Overlord”
If he doesn’t respond
“ Oh Overlord?”
If he still doesn’t respond...
Rumor has it he really enjoys "daddy" or a step up from there is "big daddy".
See, I heard his issue with "daddy" is that it doesn't sound dignified enough, and he prefers "Grand-pappy" instead =))
Grand pappy.........that's good! :))

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Some guys think you're a b*tch if you don't use those corny per names. I hate them myself. I prefer to be professional on the phone as this is the most business like part of the whole ordeal. But alas you have male and female clowns looking for their big breaks. Time wasters.

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ladyadot wrote:
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Some guys think you're a b*tch if you don't use those corny per names. I hate them myself. I prefer to be professional on the phone as this is the most business like part of the whole ordeal. But alas you have male and female clowns looking for their big breaks. Time wasters.
Jolie says I'm one of the few who rather be called by my name then a pet names.

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shyboy69 wrote:
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Some guys think you're a b*tch if you don't use those corny per names. I hate them myself. I prefer to be professional on the phone as this is the most business like part of the whole ordeal. But alas you have male and female clowns looking for their big breaks. Time wasters.
Jolie says I'm one of the few who rather be called by my name then a pet names.
No, you're one of the few who insisted she make the effort to remember your name.
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:( I love the word "Babe"
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Post by shyboy69 » Tue Jan 02, 2018 4:35 pm

YAG wrote:
Tue Jan 02, 2018 2:45 pm
shyboy69 wrote:
Tue Jan 02, 2018 1:04 pm
ladyadot wrote:
Tue Jan 02, 2018 1:01 pm
Some guys think you're a b*tch if you don't use those corny per names. I hate them myself. I prefer to be professional on the phone as this is the most business like part of the whole ordeal. But alas you have male and female clowns looking for their big breaks. Time wasters.
Jolie says I'm one of the few who rather be called by my name then a pet names.
No, you're one of the few who insisted she make the effort to remember your name.
OH.....cold.....but still funny! LOL

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shyboy69 wrote:
Tue Jan 02, 2018 4:35 pm
YAG wrote:
Tue Jan 02, 2018 2:45 pm
shyboy69 wrote:
Tue Jan 02, 2018 1:04 pm
ladyadot wrote:
Tue Jan 02, 2018 1:01 pm
Some guys think you're a b*tch if you don't use those corny per names. I hate them myself. I prefer to be professional on the phone as this is the most business like part of the whole ordeal. But alas you have male and female clowns looking for their big breaks. Time wasters.
Jolie says I'm one of the few who rather be called by my name then a pet names.
No, you're one of the few who insisted she make the effort to remember your name.
OH.....cold.....but still funny! LOL
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Post by scarletknight » Tue Jan 02, 2018 10:01 pm

Babe or hun don't bother me too much. And they're preferable to be called by some other hobbyist's name.
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scarletknight wrote:
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Babe or hun don't bother me too much. And they're preferable to be called by some other hobbyist's name.
Especially DM, but not sure which is worse I actually was called YAG once.
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scarletknight wrote:
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Babe or hun don't bother me too much. And they're preferable to be called by some other hobbyist's name.
Especially DM, but not sure which is worse I actually was called YAG once.
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Re: Unsexy Words

Post by scarletknight » Thu Jan 04, 2018 9:31 pm

Reefer wrote:
Tue Jan 02, 2018 10:23 pm
scarletknight wrote:
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Babe or hun don't bother me too much. And they're preferable to be called by some other hobbyist's name.
Especially DM, but not sure which is worse I actually was called YAG once.
Definitely worse than who I was called (I can't remember who it was, but certainly not YAG (or DM)).
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Re: Unsexy Words

Post by vorlon » Sun Jan 07, 2018 11:50 pm

scarletknight wrote:
Thu Jan 04, 2018 9:31 pm
Reefer wrote:
Tue Jan 02, 2018 10:23 pm
scarletknight wrote:
Tue Jan 02, 2018 10:01 pm
Babe or hun don't bother me too much. And they're preferable to be called by some other hobbyist's name.
Especially DM, but not sure which is worse I actually was called YAG once.
Definitely worse than who I was called (I can't remember who it was, but certainly not YAG (or DM)).
Worse than being called DM?
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Re: Unsexy Words

Post by Firewood » Mon Jan 08, 2018 8:31 pm

Babe and hun are ok.
Daddy is not.
Good times and happy women, a few naughty ones too.
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Re: Unsexy Words

Post by scarletknight » Mon Jan 08, 2018 9:49 pm

vorlon wrote:
Sun Jan 07, 2018 11:50 pm
scarletknight wrote:
Thu Jan 04, 2018 9:31 pm
Reefer wrote:
Tue Jan 02, 2018 10:23 pm
scarletknight wrote:
Tue Jan 02, 2018 10:01 pm
Babe or hun don't bother me too much. And they're preferable to be called by some other hobbyist's name.
Especially DM, but not sure which is worse I actually was called YAG once.
Definitely worse than who I was called (I can't remember who it was, but certainly not YAG (or DM)).
Worse than being called DM?
No, no - other way around. DM or Yag would be worse than who I was called.
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Re: Unsexy Words

Post by JoeNegative » Tue Jan 16, 2018 10:52 pm

Maybe I’m weird, but that kind of thing really doesn’t bother me. If someone calls me babe or hun or whatever, I don’t overthink it and just enjoy the fact that private parts are either being touched or about to be touched. Dirty talk is part of the fun, so I just roll with it. If she wants to call me Daddy, I’ll play along. I’m not imagining pedo shit, just indulging in a bit of taboo role play with another consenting adult.

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