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Is pornography bad for relationships?

Post by scarletknight » Tue Dec 20, 2016 4:48 pm

Perusing Slate.com today, and found this.

http://www.slate.com/articles/health_an ... burger_bar
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Re: Is pornography bad for relationships?

Post by John Galt » Tue Dec 20, 2016 5:01 pm

IMO, yes. Strip clubs to a lesser extent. While I think personal interaction is probaby better (even if it's not with one's significant other) I think it could potentially also be an issue. Mostly becuase all of these lead to objectification. It takes very mature people to pull it off, and unfortunately people that can't handle it come in both genders, and populate all forms adult entertainment and relationships (even rented relationships). As difficult as it is for a lot of people on here to read my opinionated posts, it is equally difficult for me to read a high minded politically correct post, and watch later as that poster contradicts their beliefs by going to a strip club. Becuase it's good for business. Selective morality.

It's going to grow even more intersting as it appears virtual reality via one's i phone is about to become affordable for the masses.

I've watched socail skills decline as more poeple text instead of talk. I've watched people bring their mobile communication devices into high end restaurants. I watch all of this, and I wonder.

Anyway, as much as things change they stay the same. Pretty boring stuff, but it's true. Anything in moderation....

Risk takers, and I am certainly a risk taker, risk getting to the point of addictive behavior. I've watched two people's lives on this board be completely destroyed. One with drugs. The other a successsful banker with too many women. I think it's probaly prudent to at least be aware of the danger signs, and I am.
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Re: Is pornography bad for relationships?

Post by wallaby » Tue Dec 20, 2016 5:16 pm

John Galt wrote:It's going to grow even more intersting as it appears virtual reality via one's i phone is about to become affordable for the masses.
Ask me about this in a week's time.

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Post by mikeyvee89 » Tue Jan 17, 2017 4:27 pm

So.... I can see both sides of this arguement. If it gets out of control it can affect ur relationship big time. I look at it as if u have the right women u both could watch it together and be an addition in your bedroom. Weve all been w those women who should sit down and watch a few pornos....lol Also for u "happily" married men it can kinda b nice to break up the standard routine and give u something different than the standard married sex. The whole part too where by seeing a super model makes u less attracted to ur wife. Bs. In my mind attitude and chemestry is 80% of great sex. Id take a freaky 5 who loves sex compared to a 10 who just lays there and doesnt do anything.
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Post by Poker69 » Tue Jan 17, 2017 4:50 pm

Wallaby wrote:
John Galt wrote:It's going to grow even more intersting as it appears virtual reality via one's i phone is about to become affordable for the masses.
Ask me about this in a week's time.

Whether pornography is good or bad for a relationship is highly dependent on the indivduals involved.
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